Comment on Anon trying understanding women
shasta@lemm.ee 1 week agoYou set your status on a dating app to In a Relationship instead of deactivating it. You got likes after that because you’re now passing search filters for a different demographic: nonmonogamous people
JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 week ago
It’s weird how you’re getting more upvotes than he did when all you did was summarize what he already said in a tone like it was new information.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
It recontextualizes things a bit - this is not purely a function of vetting, but places him in a different (smaller) category than he was in previously on the app.
JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 week ago
Tomato tamato. You end up in the same place and the journey looks the same.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
I disagree - it’s the difference between a “lol, women only become interested when you’re not available anymore” trope v. “You were a single dude in a sea of single dudes, now you’re attached and in a smaller pool of nonmonogomous dudes. Pool is smaller, so more bites”.
Or this was entirely clear in the other post if reading between the lines, and I’m just very tired.