Comment on Anon trying understanding women
MrSpArkle@lemmy.ca 1 week agoI was on a dating site many years ago. Never got messaged, rarely got responses.
Met someone in real life, set my profile to “in a relationship”. Got like 5 messages within a week.
Definitely a bit of vetting going on
shasta@lemm.ee 1 week ago
You set your status on a dating app to In a Relationship instead of deactivating it. You got likes after that because you’re now passing search filters for a different demographic: nonmonogamous people
JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 week ago
It’s weird how you’re getting more upvotes than he did when all you did was summarize what he already said in a tone like it was new information.
Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
It recontextualizes things a bit - this is not purely a function of vetting, but places him in a different (smaller) category than he was in previously on the app.
JokeDeity@lemm.ee 1 week ago
Tomato tamato. You end up in the same place and the journey looks the same.