saying “straight guys” here gives me the implication that you think it isn’t straight for a cis guy to date a trans gal, which is transphobic. hoping that’s just me reading it wrong or you expressing it wrong though.
to answer the question at hand though none of my trans friends would want to date someone who “would murder them if they ‘tricked them’”
maybe there are a few trans people interested in tricking transphobes into having sex with them but that sounds extremely dangerous per that comment before…
TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 hours ago
If they’re pre/non-op, it’s certainly wise to, though I don’t see any reason to do so if they’re post-op