Nature giving women higher color perceptiveness then men but also chronic indecisiveness is a cosmic joke.
Comment on Trying to retain your sanity while married
M33@lemmy.sdf.org 1 month ago
A professional painter told me once: I won’t start painting until your wife is okay with the color samples. Then he proceeded to paint 3 different color tones and brush patterns. She made the choice. When the painter was done, she still didn’t like it but didn’t dare tell him herself… Of course the whole shit was painted again in plain white a few years later.
LouNeko@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Mickey7@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’ve been married a long time. The secret is that I never make any decisions. But even with that half the time I still get blamed when something fucks up
rustydomino@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I got blamed for a hair that was found in food. I’m bald. 😬😬😬
Mickey7@lemmy.world 1 month ago
LOL. Not bald but my hair is black and her’s is blonde. But a few times a stray blonde hair was found and of course it was mine.
TechieDamien@lemmy.ml 1 month ago
Yeah, but are you bald everywhere? (Sorry)
Magister@lemmy.world 1 month ago
only half the time? You are married for less than 25 years!
Gaspar@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
lol wife bad AMIRITE GUISE???
driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 1 month ago
Who teach the boomers about lemmy?
Mickey7@lemmy.world 1 month ago
LOL. Can’t tell you how many times I sat there shaking my head as yet again I am blamed for something that I explicitly said I don’t care about. And you decide because I have no opinion.
volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 1 month ago
Could it be because decision making is hard and you end up telling your partner that you a) don’t care about what they care about b) leave them hanging when they might need help to decide c) they end up having decision fatigue because you don’t have an opinion? Sometimes, a consultation or just a talk about something one tries to make a decision on feels good, doing it all by yourself sucks.
Let’s say you don’t care what hotel she books. She ends up doing all the research on hotels. Presents you with it, pros and cons. You still say you don’t care. Ok, so now the burden of choice is solely on her. You guys arrive, the hotel sucks. Can’t you see that this is frustrating in a different way than if the two of you decided on the hotel together?