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zloubida@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• Phoenix3875@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Also, teenagers are poorer, so any gift would carry more weight.

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  • idiomaddict@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Yeah, I have to assume 18 year old women are on average way, way, way poorer than 40 year old men. That’s true regardless of the gender, 40 tends to be a pretty high spot in personal capital.

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    • Hydra_Fk@reddthat.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      My eyes rolled so hard on this one lol. An 18 year old woman has 40 year old losers waiting in line to buy them shit. Free drinks in the bar, free vacation, free meals, free shopping trips. 10k a month for “feet pics” on only fans 🤮.

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      • jagermo@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Are… Are you OK?

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      • webadict@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Those are really weird incel beliefs.

        But, for levity, please explain what is wrong with this:

        10k a month for “feet pics” on only fans

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• RootBeerGuy@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Tell me about those rules. I want to learn!

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  • Azzu@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It depends entirely on the maturity of the parties involved, it’s not really an “older/younger” thing.

    But generally, the less mature you are, the more a relationship is selfish, i.e. you want to be in a relationship for your personal advantage, i.e. “i get sex when I have a girlfriend”. The more mature you get, the more relationships go into the direction of “I want to make the other person happy”. You still get your sex or whatever other advantage of course, but it’s much more fulfilling if you can actually give the other person what they need, and temporarily losing your personal benefit of the relationship doesn’t cause immediate breakups.

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  • zloubida@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    No. Those rules have to be learnt the hard way.

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    • Azzu@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      They don’t really. They are often learned the hard way, because no one attempts to explain them or just acts like they know.

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• Lemjukes@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  And also gay.

  Lemmy dumping on Reddit via a 4chan greentext

  I’m so proud of this community.

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