Comment on How do I alleviate bitterness due to lack of intimacy?

NABDad@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• throwaway@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I never asked them to “rate” my looks. If that’s what you mean.

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  • OmanMkII@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I think they mean to ask for honest feedback, it’s quite possible your lack of success is linked to the mindset you have. Expecting to fail us one of the most common reasons to fail, but knowing that success requires a lot of failure is a much healthier approach.

    Have you you tried therapy to work through some of these issues? It’s helped me quite a lot

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    • throwaway@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I think they mean to ask for honest feedback, it’s quite possible your lack of success is linked to the mindset you have.

      Oh I see. That’s actually not a bad idea. I’ll try and ask them.

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      • NABDad@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Yeah, that’s what I meant. Ask the women in your life for advice.

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