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FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

I don’t believe that most women don’t like skinny guys. That’s likely just BS. I have no idea what kind of girls OP is asking out. Maybe he’s asking the super hot biddy girls who only wanna date bros from the jersey shore? No idea. But that just doesn’t seem accurate.

OP, if you wanna put on a little muscle mass without getting super into weight lifting, just do pushups/planks/other easy shit every day whenever you have a free minute. Merely doing that will add some muscle definition and make you appear a bit less skinny. You’ll notice some obvious results after a few months. You don’t have to go ham into weight lifting, unless you want to.

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kameecoding@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Metabolism differences are negligible between people, barring some disease. OP might just be a genetic outlier in terms of being able to put on muscle mass.

You also dont need to be a gymbro to put on muscle mass, 2-3 times a week 30-60 minutes in the gym is all it takes.

youtu.be/cClSiXBNGa8?si=qxyWva8kRn__oTVv

This video is excellent and these exercises can be easily done in 30 minutes and will yield better results than doing random pushups during the day.

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- FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  Huh? What do you mean metabolism is barely different between people? Some people are fat naturally even with a decent diet and some people are skinny af regardless of what they eat. What do you mean there is no difference?
  
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  - kameecoding@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    youtube.com/shorts/Se1oaRu0Pbw?si=OEsWwQ223S9g04r…
    
    examine.com/…/does-metabolism-vary-between-two-pe…
    
    Extending this into practical terms and assuming an average expenditure of 2000kcal a day, 68% of the population falls into the range of 1840-2160kcal daily while 96% of the population is in the range of 1680-2320kcal daily. Comparing somebody at or below the 5thpercentile with somebody at or above the 95thpercentile would yield a difference of possibly 600kcal daily, and the chance of this occurring (comparing the self to a friend) is 0.50%, assuming two completely random persons.
    
    To give a sense of calories, 200kcal (the difference in metabolic rate in approximately half the population) is approximately equivalent to 2 tablespoons of peanut butter, a single poptart (a package of two is 400kcal) or half of a large slice of pizza. An oreo is about 70kcal, and a chocolate bar in the range of 150-270kcal depending on brand.
    
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    FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    Interesting thanks. Appreciate the interesting information. Thanks for taking the time to type that out.
    
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- throwaway@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  
  youtu.be/cClSiXBNGa8?si=qxyWva8kRn__oTVv
  
  ?si=qxyWva8kRn__oTVv
  
  See this part here? That’s actually a tracker by Youtube. You can omid that to make the link more privacy friendly like so:
  
  youtu.be/cClSiXBNGa8
  
  Thanks for the recommendation by the way!
  
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  - FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    ClearURL extension for Firefox (might also be on Chrome) should remove that automatically when visiting a link. Also Firefox has a “copy without tracking” option as well when right clicking a link.
    
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