Comment on Anon comes out to his religious parents
LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 2 weeks agoI’m 27 and seriously questioning if I’m actually gay or just some flavor of ace with an aversion to most sexual acts. I haven’t had any sexual contact with a woman except for a single kiss, so I don’t know if I can be sure yet. I absolutely despise the touch of men. It took 3 boyfriends to realize that men disgust me in regards to phyical/romantic/sexual contact.
Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Did you try looking at photos of naked people?
LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Yeah. Dicks are disgusting. Naked women are attractive in all aspects. Porn is great if the focus is on the woman and her enjoyment. But I can’t get over how gross oral seems. Like, idk if I could handle it. The thought wigs me out.
Danquebec@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Sounds like a clear cut case to me: you’re lesbian. Not sure why you are doubting.
Oka@sopuli.xyz 2 weeks ago
You might just not like oral. Asexuals don’t find people sexually attractive. They can find them aesthetically or romantically attractive, though.
pixelscript@lemm.ee 2 weeks ago
What do you call a cis male who is sexually attracted to the conventionally attractive female phisique, but once it actually gets to act of sex or porn that depicts it, all interest is completely lost?
Asking for a friend…