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Cryophilia@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Every guy: shit it’s so difficult to find sex, love, companionship, or any of the above, it’s actually depressing
Every girl: just be yourself lol idk all that stuff just naturally is available to me
orcrist@lemm.ee 7 months ago
Cryophilia@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Hell, I AM just looking for sex and I’m still trying to improve myself. It’s just a good thing to do in general.
Sabata11792@ani.social 7 months ago
just be yourself
Says the people that tell you to hit the gym because you are unacceptable.
JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 months ago
When people say “be yourself” they mean don’t fake your personality. You can be genuine about your personality while still putting forth an effort to improve yourself physically.
saigot@lemmy.ca 7 months ago
I mean you should also always be putting in effort to improve yourself emotionally and intellectually as well.
JackbyDev@programming.dev 7 months ago
If the comment I was replying to mentioned something related to emotional/intellectual growth then I would’ve mentioned those.
Sabata11792@ani.social 7 months ago
People have low tolerance for being anxious and lacking confidence. You just get walked over or declared safe to be shitty to as soon as social weakness is seen.
GiveMemes@jlai.lu 7 months ago
I was literally the every guy in the comment then this past week I went to a totally new type of music festival and got out of my comfort zone and I have a prospective new friendship/relationship already and made tons of new friends to make plans with for the winter! Sometimes it just takes getting out of your comfort zone, but as a super socially anxious person, I know how hard that can be.