Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?

pyre@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I was thinking the same thing.

  She asked me to murder someone. You know, couples stuff.

  source
• RyanLiu@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I have dated exactly 1 (one) girl. I am her first relationship as well. Maybe we just don’t know what is normal lmao

  source

  • mrcleanup@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    If there is one lesson I could teach my younger self, it would be to have several low commitment relationships while I was younger to learn what is “normal”. Once you start making murder pacts, it’s usually too late.

    source

    • Noodle07@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I dated in high-school but now I have been single for like 10 years, I feel so lost now it’s insane

      source

      • mrcleanup@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I wish I had good advice for how to connect with people after the school years, that’s just difficult.

        source

        • -> View More Comments
    • RyanLiu@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Oh well, 7 years too late for me lmao

      source

      • Xuderis@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        It’s never too late to break up. People get divorced with really complicated lives and they’re both better off. It will only get worse if you stick around. You should consider therapy together, although I think she really needs it on her own. She has to be willing to change her behavior.

        source
  • best_username_ever@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    what is normal lmao

    It’s not, she’s crazy.

    source
  • stom@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    This ain’t it. I can smell the batshit from here.

    source