Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?

• peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  No, it doesn’t. Nothing here screams fear of abandonment. It screams insecurity, it screams anxiety, it screams mentally unhealthy, but this doesn’t say anything that could highlight BPD, or any other disorder.

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  • Illuminostro@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    It absolutely does, and I’m getting the vibe this is personal for you. This is not about you.

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    • peopleproblems@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      It absolutely does not. I’m not sure what you guys aren’t reading here, but the very first paragraph is about her wanting HIM to greet her when she arrived home in the Uber.

      Being scared of being kidnapped is not fear of abandonment.

      Y’all aren’t helping him if you’re telling him the wrong reasons to do the right thing. That ends up hurting both.

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      • Illuminostro@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        I have first hand personal knowledge of Borderline disorder. You don’t know what you’re talking about.

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