Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?
Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 2 months ago
None of that is gaslighting. However, it’s a red flag.
Comment on Is my girlfriend gaslighting me?
Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 2 months ago
None of that is gaslighting. However, it’s a red flag.
Illuminostro@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Agreed. Sounds like Borderline Personality Disorder. Get her some help, or get far, far away.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 2 months ago
No, it doesn’t. Nothing here screams fear of abandonment. It screams insecurity, it screams anxiety, it screams mentally unhealthy, but this doesn’t say anything that could highlight BPD, or any other disorder.
Illuminostro@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It absolutely does, and I’m getting the vibe this is personal for you. This is not about you.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 2 months ago
It absolutely does not. I’m not sure what you guys aren’t reading here, but the very first paragraph is about her wanting HIM to greet her when she arrived home in the Uber.
Being scared of being kidnapped is not fear of abandonment.
Y’all aren’t helping him if you’re telling him the wrong reasons to do the right thing. That ends up hurting both.