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If you would be totally happy and excited by the possibility of not having a penis and instead having a vagina then you’re probably trans. If, however, that idea horrifies you. Congratulations! You’re probably not trans. It’s basically that simple but with a few more steps.

Sincerely a Bisexual cisgender furry with many gay pan and trans friends

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EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
Not necessarily. There are plenty of trans women out there who are 100% fine with having a penis and have absolutely no desire to have bottom surgery.

Being trans isn’t about your genitals; it’s about how you feel at a fundamental level.

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- Forester@yiffit.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  You are correct but I’m going for much broader strokes.
  
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  - EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    I suppose that’s fair enough. 👍
    
    I just didn’t want someone to get the wrong impression, that’s all. :)
    
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    Forester@yiffit.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    Doors open everyone who is tolerant of others is welcome
    
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howrar@lemmy.ca ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
How would you interpret it if you’re neutral towards the idea? Like, it would be an inconvenience to have to learn how to handle new bits, but otherwise, life just goes on as usual.

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- match@pawb.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  did you ever have a point in your childhood/teenaged years where you thought it was stupid that people worked so hard to present masculine/feminine, or even a “transphobic” period in your life where you thought it was ridiculous that trans people would go through so much effort just to become their gender?
  
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  - howrar@lemmy.ca ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    I may have been too autistic for this. I don’t think I had any understanding of what masculine/feminine even meant until my mid 20s.
    
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    match@pawb.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
    Well, I will relate that I am also too autistic for this gender shit and currently identify as nonbinary (more specifically, agender).
    
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- Forester@yiffit.net ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
  This is not my forte. I’m pretty sure you would fall under the definition of an egg or non binary. Personally I would think it would be super cool to experience the other side of things for an hour or two but I DO NOT want any type of long term change myself.
  
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match@pawb.social ⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago
i swear I’ve met cis men who wish they were trans men with vaginas though, and those cis men still want to be men so it’s hard to class them as trans or even nonbiney

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