Intentionally denying food to a child is child abuse. So I hope you are a non-parent if that is how you think you should treat children.
StaySquared@lemmy.world 4 months ago
You are the parent of your daughter… yet she dictates to you what she eats?
There’s your problem to begin with. You know what happened when I refused to eat what my mother made? Dealt with it… by not eating anything.
Yeah yeah here comes the downvotes from non-parents and parents who don’t know how to parent.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Holyginz@lemmy.world 4 months ago
It’s a troll. I doubt they have a kid or married based on their responses. And if they do I feel bad for them. Most of the time if the comment is overly antagonistic they just want to get a rise out of someone since their life is empty and it’s the only way they can feel a spark of enjoyment in their life. You have done literally nothing wrong here and you don’t owe anyone an explanation.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Thank you.
Holyginz@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Absolutely. I am not very good at it myself, but the best way to deal with these people is to ignore them. Without attention they get bored and do other stuff. Either that or you fight their nasty by being nasty in return. But they have no shame so you kind of have to sink to their level. I will admit I do that from time to time myself to release steam, but its not great for your mental state to do it a lot. Sorry about the ton of unsolicited advice, I just hate seeing it when trolls are tormenting people about things they have no business talking about.
StaySquared@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Intentionally? No… they have two options. Eat was has been made, or don’t. It is THEIR decision. lmao “child abuse”. Goodness that’s weak af.
FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 4 months ago
How would you like it if someone said to you, eat this thing you can’t stand or go hungry? Because that’s the choice you’re giving. Eat something that makes them feel sick and disgusted or starve.
People are allowed to not like certain foods. Why you think it’s acceptable to give any human being the choice to eat what you want them to eat or don’t eat? That’s literally how they punish prisoners. Look up neutraloaf.
StaySquared@lemmy.world 4 months ago
If the food is literally giving them sickness, that’s one thing. Tell me, are parents in African tribes abusing their children when they give their children only two options, eat or don’t? How about parents in war torn nations? I’m not giving my kids the luxury, that’s not how many of us around the world, outside of the Western world roll.
FarmTaco@lemmy.world 4 months ago
UP HILL, BOTH WAYS, IN THE SNOW
madcaesar@lemmy.world 4 months ago
You were making a good point then went batshit 🤷♂️
LordGimp@lemm.ee 4 months ago
A child with agency?!? Making decisions?!?? Not in MY white fright dystopia they wont!! I was abused and therefore I am entitled to abuse any child I see, because I am a child in my mind! Why would I ever address my own deficiencies when I have a political figure to scapegoat every decade or so?
Nicoleism101@lemm.ee 4 months ago
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StaySquared@lemmy.world 4 months ago
I’m Latino, wife is Arab… we are not the same as you gringos. Your child has authority over you, we have authority over our children. This is the way.
Stay salty.
Holyginz@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Children obeying you because they are afraid of being beaten isn’t having authority over them. Its abuse, but sure, fall back on racism to feel superior.
StaySquared@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Someone should have called you out for claiming, I used, “beating” or that my children are afraid in general of me and or their mother… dafuq is wrong with our reading comprehension? You high? Too much my little pony?