Comment on Daily Discussion Thread: đ˝ Sunday, June 23, 2024
Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Despite everything thatâs happened, I miss my friend.
Weâve known each other about 5 years, and been through thick and thin. We referred to each other as family. I was there for him, and he was there for me.
It all turned to shit pretty quickly once he got together with a new partner. We went from chatting a couple of times a week on the phone, to radio silence.
And then all the, almost spiteful stuff that came afterwards. ie: telling me to give up trying to get an IT gig, withdrawijg his reference (knowing full well at the time that Iâd be fucked without it).
Iâm hurt. Deeply. And I know his new partner has something to do with it. But at the end of the day, they are his choices.
Thereâs no coming back from whatâs happened. The door is shut from my end.
And so life goes on.
Some people just arenât who we think they are, or they change. And it sucks when theyâre dickheads, it hurts.
Having said that, and experienced it, I think most people are good and kind hearted. But when we ourselves have traumatic pasts, we attract those who seek to harm us.
Drop the turd and thrive, king đ
So many hugs.
Itâs him, really, None of what he did and said was anything like what a friend does. Not even a good ex friend would ever want you to fail.
And about still missing him.
thatâs because you remember the good times you had together.
so donât feel guilty , hugs
LowExperience2368@aussie.zone â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Yikes. Iâm sorry you had to go through that.