Comment on Anon can't find a good match
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months agoOf course, the BPD women are love bombing you as a technique to manipulate you specifically, so in the end it really isn’t that good. I’m working on it too, so I’m gonna say “we” here, but we have to work on retraining our brains to not need that intense feeling anymore if we expect to have a normal healthy relationship again.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months ago
initial attraction/chemistry is all that matters to 99% of people.
that’s why cluster b people, male or female, are so great at dating. they create the spark.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
I mean sure, you could succumb to your base desires, or you could rise above for your own betterment and to avoid being trapped in the same cycle of abuse. Up to you really!
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months ago
very few people are capable of doing that dude.
your solution doesn’t scale.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
I’m making progress, personally, and I doubt your assumption that I’m better or more capable than most. Maybe, but I know me and that doesn’t really check out, most things that I can do, others can also learn to do even if it doesn’t just come naturally.