Comment on Anon can't find a good match
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months agobeen there, done that.
stay strong.
been happier alone for the past 5 years then i ever was when i was with cluster b ladies. they make your life a living hell.
Comment on Anon can't find a good match
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months agobeen there, done that.
stay strong.
been happier alone for the past 5 years then i ever was when i was with cluster b ladies. they make your life a living hell.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
Of course, the BPD women are love bombing you as a technique to manipulate you specifically, so in the end it really isn’t that good. I’m working on it too, so I’m gonna say “we” here, but we have to work on retraining our brains to not need that intense feeling anymore if we expect to have a normal healthy relationship again.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months ago
initial attraction/chemistry is all that matters to 99% of people.
that’s why cluster b people, male or female, are so great at dating. they create the spark.
ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 months ago
I mean sure, you could succumb to your base desires, or you could rise above for your own betterment and to avoid being trapped in the same cycle of abuse. Up to you really!
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 3 months ago
very few people are capable of doing that dude.
your solution doesn’t scale.