Like another comment said, sometimes you can just sense it, but often enough they will just tell me. I have heard so many stories, frequently about sexual assault by a family member, from someone I had just met or barely knew.
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Rolder@reddthat.com 4 weeks agoI’m picturing you going on a first date and just casually asking something like “So, childhood abuse yes or no?”
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AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
I have a similar thing. People just open up to me, but my parents aren’t abusive. The worst punishment they gave us was to write a research paper on why what we had done was wrong.
Disaster@sh.itjust.works 4 weeks ago
Often times, you don’t need to ask. You can just tell.