Comment on Why do arranged marriages persist in many cultures?
richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one 6 months agoI understand in theory the benefits. But I practice for me It would be a nightmare. Being unable to get away from toxic family members would be horrible. And being the outsider… I’m dating you, not your family. I find the idea of “entering a new family” worrisome and distasteful.
AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 6 months ago
I don’t know. There’s an even chance my parents would have been better at picking my husband than I was.
beefbot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 months ago
Eh. There’s a BIG difference between you making a questionable decision on your own and someone else forcing you into their questionable decision
AnalogyAddict@lemmy.world 6 months ago
You do know that arranged marriage and forced marriage are different things, right?
dezmd@lemmy.world 6 months ago
You do know the two overlap rather consistently from the context of the females’ choice in most cultures where it persists, right?