Comment on Why do arranged marriages persist in many cultures?
BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 4 months agoIt's nice when you get some help, but ihelp in the form of aomeone being forced to be your little house slave is weird as shit
Comment on Why do arranged marriages persist in many cultures?
BruceTwarzen@kbin.social 4 months agoIt's nice when you get some help, but ihelp in the form of aomeone being forced to be your little house slave is weird as shit
fine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.de 4 months ago
That’s the thing though. An arranged marriage is not necessarily a forced marriage. If everyone is an enthusiastic participant then where’s the harm?
AA5B@lemmy.world 4 months ago
I didn’t grow up in one of those cultures, but agree, there could be advantages. Notably, younger people are likely to focus on physical attraction, whereas marriage is a life long partnership that requires a lot more. As long as it’s not forced, the participants have a veto, I can definitely see advantages.
As a nerdy, introverted, shy, guy, bring it on. I have plenty to bring to a relationship, but not in finding someone to relate to
Shou@lemmy.world 4 months ago
Then what makes it arranged?
fine_sandy_bottom@discuss.tchncs.de 4 months ago
Family assisting with attracting and selecting a suitor.