Sounds perfectly rational to me. Actually, a visit from you might be more welcome in about a monthâs time when all the new has worn off and everyone else has stepped back a bit.
Comment on Daily discussion thread: đŚ Friday, May 10, 2024
whatisthislifeilead@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨months⊠ago
One of my friends just had her second baby and all my other friends are jumping up straightaway to visit her as soon as possible. Is it wrong that IâŚjust donât care? I mean Iâm glad she has had a safe birth, the baby is healthy etc, I sent congratulations and contributed to a baby gift butâŚIâm sorry iâm not chomping at the bit to come and visit and check-in.
Thornburywitch@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨months⊠ago
Seagoon_@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨months⊠ago
Exactly, just because youâre not gaga doesnât mean you are mean. You have nothing to be sorry about
Donât let others set the standard of behaviour, set your own. There is more than one way to be a good caring person.
Hugs.
CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨months⊠ago
Nah, perfectly normal.
TinyBreak@aussie.zone â¨4⊠â¨months⊠ago
it actaully means a shit load more to give it a couple of weeks THEN go say hi. You go in the first couple of weeks? Its about the baby. You go after the excitement settles down and the craziness sets in? Youâre there to see your mate. Its the later weeks that are more lonely.