Comment on Anon has nerdy hobbies
papalonian@lemmy.world 1 month agoMy friend, you’re 44 and haven’t learned the art of not giving a fuck what people think of you? Wear that sick trench coat. Worst case scenario, someone laughs at you, and you brighten their day a bit.
HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Upvoted and I’m technically in agreement with you, but at the end of the day most of us humans are social creatures and how we fit in is, on some level at least, important to us.
I will say though if dressing like a neckbeard is fundamental to who someone is, they should absolutely go for it. But for me, who thinks fedoras (sans modern context) do indeed look cool, that’s not enough to overcome the stigma. It’s all about finding our personal balances, I guess.
Renegade_roosteR@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Daft_ish@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I’ll just say, I want to fit in as much as the next guy but if it’s something I really like, nothing gets in the way. I come first.
HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yes but that’s objectively fucking rad