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• tomi000@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  And why would you encourage that if you dont want t the stuff they post?

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• mikeboltonshair@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Only if they are have no self esteem and need validation from strangers, upvotes are mostly fluff, downvotes when not abused are the better way of doing things

  Someone says the earth is flat… downvote, someone says I wonder why they think like that let’s try and understand why they think like that doesn’t deserve a downvote, but with the current online echo chambers on both sides these are how downvotes are used

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  • Stoneykins@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Nah, getting a dopamine hit is the standard human reaction to getting approval, and upvotes are basically distilled approval. You can pretend you are “tough” and don’t care about “validation from strangers” but normal people get a sense of satisfaction and a desire to repeat it when they post something online that is well received.

    Hell, that emotional reaction is the entire motivating factor that keeps every social media site full of fresh content. People want to be liked.

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    • mikeboltonshair@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Yeah you are right I’m not immune to our biological hardwiring it’s not a me being tough thing however, not everyone is equally affected by it.

      I don’t have social media as I don’t see value in it, also if my comments get downvoted to shit or upvoted I don’t really care because these things aren’t real life to me

      Even in real life if someone praises me for doing a good job it’s a nice thing to do for sure but I don’t actually care about getting praise especially from strangers, if it’s someone I know then sure

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      • Stoneykins@mander.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Sure, everyone is variable and your personal experience is valid. It isn’t very different from mine, tbh (also lemmy is social media so…)

        I just took exception to the “(people are motivated by upvotes) …only if they have no self esteem and need validation from strangers” part. Many people are motivated by upvotes, but there isn’t anything necessarily wrong with that, and it certainly doesn’t mean they have low self esteem or anything. It just felt rude.

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