Iām so sorry.
I was thinking about what you wrote, how he was doing things to teach people a lesson.
Thatās just crazy, what would be the point?
Itās really just sadism framed with words that blame the victim.
Heās a bad person.
Comment on Daily discussion thread: š Tuesday, April 23, 2024
Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone āØ8ā© āØmonthsā© ago
I got the full story about that guy Iāve mentioned the other day.
Everything Iāve told him in confidence has been spread around. People I havenāt met, know about my substance issues from the past.
I am so fucking angry right now. But, it will pass.
Heās dead to me.
Seagoon_@aussie.zone āØ8ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Thank you. Iāve been stewing about it most of the day, but itās passed now. I blocked him on everything. I hate losing a friend, but this guy definitely isnāt one.
TinyBreak@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Is this the bloke who use you as an emotional crutch whilst he fucks away his life?
Maaaaan how pathetic do you have to be that someone respectfully tells you that they need space so you proceed to dump on them to make yourself feel better? Dudes done you a favor bro, hes made a very clear statement: āIām a piece of shit and your time spent being my friend is wastedā.
Also its 2024, if other folks dunk on you for overcoming a substance abuse issue thatās just more trash taking itself out.
Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Exactly right mate. At the end of the day, itās out there now. It took a metric fucktonne of effort, work and willpower to get where I am. Iām over being ashamed of it.
TinyBreak@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Iām over being ashamed of it.
damn fucking straight! you should be proud as shit bro
Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Ugh. That is awful. What a POS.
Baku@aussie.zone āØ8ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Is this the one whoās been self destructing?
Iām sorry gibsy. Iām not sure this is the case, although it probably does feel like it but Iām sure you wonāt be judged about your past as much as it feels like you might. Those people donāt even know you, theyāre probably not likely to pass too much judgement
Try not to let it affect your trust too much (which I realise is easier said than done). Thereās still good people out there, and speaking from experience, isolating yourself wonāt help
Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone āØ7ā© āØmonthsā© ago
Thatās the one. Yeah the first thing in my mind is āfuck this, never trusting anyone againā, but ultimately thatās the wrong option. I canāt let a shitty experience stop me from an important part of relationships with people. Iāll just have to be much, much more observant of people before I discuss certain topics.