Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship?
tigerjerusalem@lemmy.world 7 months agoI have trouble giving, specially after surviving a long abusive marriage. I divorced years ago but I guess some scars still remains.
Comment on How do I stop wanting to be on a relationship?
tigerjerusalem@lemmy.world 7 months agoI have trouble giving, specially after surviving a long abusive marriage. I divorced years ago but I guess some scars still remains.
RBWells@lemmy.world 7 months ago
Give yourself some grace - I noted in my reply that my husband, coming out of an abusive relationship had the string of two years relationships but we are solid, twelve years now and it doesn’t feel like a long time. I had a different experience, though also was coming out of a relationship that had become physically abusive. There are things I have had to unlearn.
You say you are working with a therapist, that should help, but again, you aren’t broken. All of what you are feeling sounds normal.