Comment on "I wish you well in your future endeavors"
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 months agoGod, yeah, all women are wonderful and all men are bad. That’s certainly been my life experience.
Comment on "I wish you well in your future endeavors"
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 months agoGod, yeah, all women are wonderful and all men are bad. That’s certainly been my life experience.
MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 6 months ago
That’s not really the point.
If a good man has a woman turn violent on him, odds are he has a physical advantage and will be able to deal with it. It shouldn’t have to happen that way but he can probably keep himself safe.
Flip that around, and as a woman, even if 99.99% of men will take it completely calmly, the small chance that you’re dealing with that 0.01% who will flip out and try to hurt you the second things don’t go his way, is fucking terrifying.
Especially if you’re smaller than average and dealing with someone bigger than average, the smart thing is to not just risk it. No, it doesn’t feel good when a girl assumes the worst about me, but I get it, so I don’t take it personally.
I can know I would never turn my strength and size to hurting to someone, she cannot.
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 months ago
I don’t disagree, having been attacked by… three women.
MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 6 months ago
The exact same considerations apply. If you’re in a situation where others could physically overpower you, you tend to try avoid doing anything that gives anyone reason to do so if that occurring is even the tiniest possibility.
When it comes to ones own bodily safety, other considerations become secondary, whether that’s fair or not.
It’s not matter of “all of them are like that” but of playing it safe.
feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 months ago
Like attacking a man easily twice your size? Somebody should have told them! They could have ended up getting hurt.