Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?
TheInsane42@lemmy.world 1 year ago
I guess it bothers you as it’s a command, not a request. I’m not to responsive to commands as well. My wife doesn’t give them, but states a situation, usually expecting I drop everything and respond. (almost as bad)
As someone already reacted, in the car I get a ‘look’ as well, but th’s usually because she sees an old car. (When busy with traffic, I miss it, but we have some nice spots)
Some consideration from your partner is appreciated though, but that requires telling what is wrong as well. Without communication the problem only escalates. (Which usually doesn’t bode well for relationships)
Saraphim@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Hmm that’s part of it. But I literally never know what I’m walking in to. About 2 months ago he was yelling “a little help here. Hurry. I need you.” He said those three things instead of “I cut my hand in the garage, bring a towel because I’m bleeding”. Nope he yelled at me vaguely and then acted annoyed when I didn’t hurry and he was clearly bleeding everywhere and then snapped at me to go get him a towel and move faster because it was an emergency.
TheInsane42@lemmy.world 1 year ago
Oh help, bloody idiot (litteraly). Looks like a pampered kid. Was he an only child? The 1st thing a child learns (when out of diapers) in a multiple kid family is to be clear when you need help and help yourself first/as much as possible. When a person is not clear what they want, they have only themselves to blame when others don’t understand what they want. (but alas, it looks like you have some educating to do, but I doubt it’ll stick)
I had an accident (several even) with blood loss, but even with a concussion (after a head-bud from a wheelbarrow, resulting in it and a huge nosebleed) it was clear that just shouting would be useless, so I went to the spot where the help was available. Yes, blood all around, most of it on clothes and outside, but that could be cleaned. I know my wife would rather clean up later then find a non-functioning husband.