Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?
RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 2 years ago
This sounds like a you problem that can only be resolved by talking to him about it. Maybe a counselor or therapist if necessary.
Comment on Why does “come here” bother me so much?
RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.world 2 years ago
This sounds like a you problem that can only be resolved by talking to him about it. Maybe a counselor or therapist if necessary.
Chariotwheel@kbin.social 2 years ago
Yeah, kinda sounds like the husband may just be unaware of what's ticking OP off. Even if they show displeasure, if they don't properly verbalize it, they may just be annoyed at the subject matter, rather than how the husband is calling them.
Some people, like me, are daft as hell and need some things to be spelled out for them.
Vilian@lemmy.ca 2 years ago
as a boyfriend i talk like this too, i don’t think my girlfriend bothers, but i never thought about it, yes, she need to talk to him cos he never gonna know
Saraphim@lemmy.world 2 years ago
Oh no I have verbalized it. He acknowledges it’s inappropriate and keeping me in unnecessary suspense. But he doesn’t know why he does it so … shrug. He even apologized for it last night as soon as i said something about it (raccoons just sitting on the roof). It was 1am and I was dead asleep and he called me on my phone to wake me to come outside right away and see this. A 1am urgent call from outside the house when I’m dead asleep should be about someone being dead, not “there are two raccoons sitting on the roof of our sunroom.”