Comment on Asking a girl out for comic book store date?
hudson@sh.itjust.works 6 months agoWhen you raise the stakes this high before you even try, you’ve already lost. THAT is how you end up in whatever this “friend zone” is…
I wouldn’t know…
Comment on Asking a girl out for comic book store date?
hudson@sh.itjust.works 6 months agoWhen you raise the stakes this high before you even try, you’ve already lost. THAT is how you end up in whatever this “friend zone” is…
I wouldn’t know…
otp@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
Why is it desperate and insecure to explicitly ask someone out on a date?
And if you’re not sure what the “friendzone” is, then how are you so sure about how to end up in it? Lol
hudson@sh.itjust.works 6 months ago
Where did i say that? You’re trying too hard, and that’s bad advice to give, especially to someone who would best benefit from relaxing and taking the chill approach. Women appreciate a confident approach that doesn’t come off as too eager. Everyone appreciates that. Being too quick to try to define a relationship that doesn’t even exist can come off as desperate and demanding. Young (all) women want to make up their own minds, so let them!
During the outing, she’ll pick up that OP wants more than a friendship and if she wants more, too, that’s the direction it will go. And if that’s not what she wants, then so be it.