Comment on Relationship advice?
Feathercrown@lemmy.world 4 months ago
I honestly enjoy seeing people like this with batshit insane but logically consistent views. Makes things much more fun
Comment on Relationship advice?
Feathercrown@lemmy.world 4 months ago
I honestly enjoy seeing people like this with batshit insane but logically consistent views. Makes things much more fun
Fawxhox@lemmy.world 4 months ago
As an autistic dude, I feel like I know that it’s weird too say, but I also feel like it makes sense. Like it’s hard to quantify x% better, but I’m sure there is a number, for me at least, where if someone is that much better and would date me, I’d do it. It’s not romantic to say, but it’s true. And I’ve been dumped for other people twice so the same must have been true for them.
It just feels like one of the thousands of unspoken rules you’re not allowed to talk about out of politeness. But honestly I would like to know that number for my SO.
Flumpkin@slrpnk.net 4 months ago
If you’re curious about an alternative view, I suggest The Art of Loving by Erich Fromm. Relationships are about growing your own and the others natural abilities, something you do and not about trading something you have. The OP post is a materialistic view and a belief in inequality. YMMV.