Comment on Anon joins girl's night

• EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  It’s something that other people chose for you, you don’t pick it yourself

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  • endless_nameless@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    it’s something you pick through your own behavior.

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    • EmilieEasie@fedinsfw.app ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      That’s kinda like saying you can pick your own nickname through behavior. Like, yeah, you’re probably never gonna get called big tuna if you never touch the stuff at the office, but not really

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      • endless_nameless@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        Not like that at all. I want to hang out with men and women so I make friends with men and women. I invite them to stuff and they invite me to stuff. Sometimes I go to hang out and it winds up being mostly or all men. Sometimes mostly or all women. It really doesn’t matter and the only thing that really makes the difference one way or the other is who is available at the time.

        Avoid people who view their gender as an enclave cause they are for sure misogynist, misandrist, or both. Make yourself open to people who are more gender-agnostic if that term I just made up makes any sense.

        It is a choice. You get to choose your friends. It’s not RNG.

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      • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

        That’s exactly how someone would get called Big Tuna. It’s like a huge guy named Tony Tiny

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