Comment on Why do women in golf wear those short/skirt things while the men wear pants?
daggermoon@piefed.world 1 day agoTrue, but then I get hit on by men which isn’t the goal. Yes, that’s likely to happen anyway but I don’t see why I should go out of my way to go someplace where it’s almost guaranteed. Yes, I’m very aware that’s a me problem.
sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Ye, but if getting hit on by men wasn’t danger-coded or gross, it would be less of a deterrent. You don’t have to blame yourself.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 20 hours ago
If getting hit on by men is the only problem we’ve got to find you a supportive lesbian friend group or bar where you can try on pretty dresses (I think they’re called drag clubs)
daggermoon@piefed.world 17 hours ago
Lesbians love me lol. Never really been interested in drag. I definitely respect it though. I’d be willing to go if a friend wanted to. I don’t have any pretty dresses to try on. I want a maid dress. That would be awesome.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 15 hours ago
The best tailor i ever had did primarily wedding dresses (on Lamar Street in Austin if they’re still around, I just san terrible with names) and I was recommended through a friend getting her dress done. I was actually her first male presenting client (unknowingly going for the twink look at the time) and she altered half my tops. Got them nice and snug.
Which reminds me, I haven’t fit into my favorite shirt for years, but if I wear it like so… Gimme a minute my wife is going to be so happy she likes the shirt as much as I do
daggermoon@piefed.world 17 hours ago
Lol, thanks. That made my day.