Comment on Few adult men are killed by adult women.

• Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Same as mothers committing infanticide, parental alienation, paternity fraud, rape and many other crimes.

  Acting like an entire gender is guilty of the crimes of a few is inherently wrong and it is called collective responsibility, and it can also be played both ways, which is a complete waste of time.

  It just leads to fighting, throwing blame around and it does not help bring solutions to the people actually suffering.

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  • Rampsquatch@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    “but what about…”

    Cool, we aren’t talking about that right now.

    If people pointing out shitty things that a plurality of men do upsets you, ask yourself why? Are you a part of that plurality? If no, why are you mad?

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    • Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Because when problems affecting women are discussed, most people act like it is the end of the world, like men need to risk and even lose their lives to protect them, but whenever issues that affect men are discussed, we are met with dismissals such as yours.

      If people pointing out shitty things that a plurality of women do upsets you enough to try to debase those concerns, attempt to throw shade and even attempt to paint the other person as someone who roofies women, then there is no sense in having a discussion.

      It is the same regurgitated arguments that people who claim “kill all men” is not hate speech, and ridiculing anyone who takes issue with said problematic statement.

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