Comment on Too Little Too Late š
jaschen@lemmy.world āØ1ā© āØmonthā© ago
Iām not saying you should have kids. Thatās a decision you donāt take lightly.
But as a father of 2, I want to tell you that you will never love anybody or anything in the world than you will with your kids. I was a selfish piece of shit and after having kids, man, I hate who I was before.
Itās not for the faint of hearts. Shit aināt easy. But I can tell you itās quite the experience and I donāt regret it.
PhoenixDog@lemmy.world āØ1ā© āØmonthā© ago
Iām a selfish piece of shit and thatās why I donāt want and will never have kids. I like my freedom. I like my partner and I tossing the dogs into the car and just going out somewhere. I like coming home from work and just having a quiet evening with no responsibilities. I like only having to buy groceries for two people.
chewypoops@lemmy.world āØ1ā© āØmonthā© ago
I donāt even think this is selfish. Itās only selfish to put yourself first when you have kids who depend on you. People choose the responsibilities they take on in life, and you donāt owe the world anything here. If you donāt have kids, youāre able to do more for yourself, and anyone who calls you selfish for it may actually be a bit jealous, in which case they should reassess their own parental priorities.