Comment on Too Little Too Late đ
jaschen@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Iâm not saying you should have kids. Thatâs a decision you donât take lightly.
But as a father of 2, I want to tell you that you will never love anybody or anything in the world than you will with your kids. I was a selfish piece of shit and after having kids, man, I hate who I was before.
Itâs not for the faint of hearts. Shit ainât easy. But I can tell you itâs quite the experience and I donât regret it.
PhoenixDog@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Iâm a selfish piece of shit and thatâs why I donât want and will never have kids. I like my freedom. I like my partner and I tossing the dogs into the car and just going out somewhere. I like coming home from work and just having a quiet evening with no responsibilities. I like only having to buy groceries for two people.
chewypoops@lemmy.world â¨2⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I donât even think this is selfish. Itâs only selfish to put yourself first when you have kids who depend on you. People choose the responsibilities they take on in life, and you donât owe the world anything here. If you donât have kids, youâre able to do more for yourself, and anyone who calls you selfish for it may actually be a bit jealous, in which case they should reassess their own parental priorities.