Comment on I’m personally just not a fan of Busch
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 weeks agoI mean I get why some women choose to keep their body hair and I think that’s rad, but at the same time they can’t be upset if a man chooses not to get involved with them because of it.
People have preferences, and no one complains when women have grooming standards for the men they do stuff with
sunbrrnslapper@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Totally. I only dated tall wealthy men with a full head of hair for the same reason. 😉
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 weeks ago
That’s fine as long as you don’t make a big deal about men who only date women based on their physical characteristics and their performance of traditional gender roles…
teslekova@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
No no, we can make a big deal about it, that’s free speech too. 😄
Master@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
free speech only means your government wont persecute you for saying it. Your neighbors can still burn you at the stake though. (metaphorically)
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 weeks ago
Okay, well if you’re gonna make a big deal about that then you can’t complain when men make a big deal about women choosing men based on their physical characteristics (i.e. full hair, height, build, etc.) and performance of gender traditional roles (i.e. provider, protector, etc.).
You can’t have it both ways, that’s called a double standard and hypocrisy. Either people can choose whatever they want in a partner and it’s no big deal, or no one can.
Stop trying to cherrypick every situation to gain the most advantage and have the best of both worlds. Have some logical consistency.