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wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨23⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

This isn’t at her own house though. Her fling’s friends are around, so chances are it’s at her fling’s house.

I mean what if I as a man were to decide to hang out naked at “a fling’s” house when her friends are over and I didn’t ask any of them if they’d be comfortable with me taking my clothes off? Suddenly the situation seems different, right?

This is just the same old casual minimization of men’s concerns when their boundaries or consent is being violated, because “You’re a man so you should just shut up and enjoy this. Consider yourself lucky to bask in the presence of my feminine nakedness.”

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edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Not really, I’ve been in that situation. Her buddy said nice dick, people laughed, that was that. When I got across the room to where my clothes were I got dressed. You might just be a prude.

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- wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Okay, I’ll just start hanging out naked around people who didn’t agree to see my junk, and if anyone feels uncomfortable I’ll call them a prude. We’ll see how that goes.
  
  Your anecdote about a few people who happened to be pro-nudity doesn’t change that. The same situation could’ve landed you in jail and registered as a sex offender if your audience happened to be different.
  
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  - edible_funk@lemmy.world ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    No it couldn’t when you’re in a private space. Plenty of people have seen my dick because they came into a space where I was free to have my dick out for whatever reason. Never had an issue. Are you autistic or just really bad at social cues? This isn’t complicated. There’s times and places that nudity isn’t inappropriate. Private spaces are one. Have you ever seen in person the opposite sex naked? It’s not a big deal.
    
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    wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    There’s a difference between “I’ve been naked with another adult in a mutually consensual situation” and “oh haha, let me just hang out naked to make people uncomfortable so I can laugh at them.”
    
    Did you not read the OP?
    
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