Comment on i wonder what goes through men's minds in this situation
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 5 hours agoThere’s a difference between “I’ve been naked with another adult in a mutually consensual situation” and “oh haha, let me just hang out naked to make people uncomfortable so I can laugh at them.”
Did you not read the OP?
edible_funk@lemmy.world 4 hours ago
Yes. If people come into my private spaces they do so with the understanding that they may see me nude. Given the context of the op the implication is the flings friends came over after the fling had some fun and thus came into the nude persons space where they’re allowed to be naked. Their discomfort with her nudity is their problem. You’re projecting that it was some sort of power play when a remarkable number of people just aren’t bothered by nudity because it’s not inherently sexual.
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 3 hours ago
This isn’t her private space. Why would her fling’s friends be at her apartment?
If this wasn’t a power play then why would she be meming about it?
If this was projection on my part then it would be totally fine for me to hang out naked at “my fling’s” apartment while she has friends over? That would go entirely differently and you know it.
edible_funk@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Yeah it’s fling’s space where she was invited to be comfortable up to and including nudity. If fling was uncomfortable with it they’d have said something. If flings friend’s were uncomfortable they’d have said something. If you’re nude in a space with other people it’s amusing when they try and fail to pretend you’re not nude. They know they’re nude. It’s not a big deal. And it wouldn’t because I’ve literally been in that exact situation with at three or four different partners. Nobody cared. Y’all are just porn-brained.
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 2 hours ago
Except this meme is literally reveling in the idea of making someone uncomfortable, so your whole charade of “no this is actually mutually consensual” is a sham.
But sure, call that porn-brained. I hope next time you show your junk to the wrong person and it bites you on the ass so hard you’ll be introducing yourself to your new neighbors for the rest of your life. Don’t sweat it, I’m sure they’re just “porn-brained.” Jackass.