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horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

So in the same vain you think it would be acceptable for the protagonist of this meme to start cutting themselves as an act of self-harm infront of other people? No matter if it made them uncomfortable?

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mpramann@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨14⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
That is an insane comparison. It does not help your argument one bit.

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- horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨10⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  It’s all about context. Deliberately exposing yourself without consent to someone could cause similar harm.
  
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PhoenixDog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
Imagine trying to equate comfortable nudity and accepting one’s body to “YEAH BUT WHAT IF THEY STARTED CUTTING THEMSELVES NOW WHAT!?”

What a weird reach. Just admit you hyper sexualize nudity and get it over with.

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- horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
  Imagine trying to tell everyone else that your culture and belief system is right and others are wrong.
  
  Quite imperialist.
  
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  - PhoenixDog@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    What belief system? I am comfortable being naked. I find other people who are also comfortable being naked. We share being comfortable being naked together. We are not naked in front of others who are not comfortable with themselves or others being naked.
    
    It’s not hard, bro. I’m not gonna drink booze in front of a recovering alcoholic. I’m not going to tell war stories to someone with severe PTSD, and I’m not gonna be naked in front of someone who isn’t in on also being naked.
    
    You do whatever you want to do. I’m not the one judging here. I have a partner who loves being naked and I love being naked with. We have friends who also love being naked who we all spend naked time with.
    
    Maybe google the word “Consent”. It might do you a world of wonders.
    
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    wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago
    
    We are not naked in front of others who are not comfortable with themselves or others being naked.
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    I’m not gonna be naked in front of someone who isn’t in on also being naked.
    
    That’s not what this post is about.
    
    Maybe google the word “Consent”. It might do you a world of wonders.
    
    Sounds like something you should tell OP…
    
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    horn_e4_beaver@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨16⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    
    Maybe google the word “Consent”. It might do you a world of wonders.
    
    I think that is one thing the original post is missing and I am suggesting is necessary.
    
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