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RaphaelSchmitz@feddit.org 2 days agoSome women are for the patriarchy.
Sometimes, an “Are you gay” from a woman even is a “why are you not fucking me”; be it subconsciously, or a conscious flirty challenge.
Sometimes, it’s a “My man would never do anything like that and other man shouldn’t make him look bad in comparison”. Although I guess that’s the patriarchy thing again. Just like red pill podcast pickmes.
Of course all doesn’t matter, you could be the most effeminate man in the world - as long as you’re attracted to women, there’s no question.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 1 day ago
no, they are just judgemental insecure twats of human beings. has nothing to do with anything else.
if you judge them for their personal hygiene choices they’d freak the fuck out and call you a misogynist, but when they do it, it’s OK because they are ‘progressive’ and ‘woke’.
i’ve yet to ever meet a ‘anti patriachy’ person who wasn’t just a judgemental jerk who used their ‘feminism’ as an excuse to be a total asshole over petty bullshit about other people’s choices. they are the same as MAGA twats, they just use different words.
RaphaelSchmitz@feddit.org 1 day ago
Uh, well, I’m anti patriarchy.
Shouldn’t take my own word that I’m not an asshole of course.
However, I’m very much “live and let live”, which is exactly why I’m against patriarchy trying to tell me I can’t exfoliate, respect my female coworkers, etc.
The first thing someone says when meeting someone new usually isn’t "I’m [pro-/anti-] patriarchy. But every single woman I met where it came up was anti patriarchy. I haven’t met A SINGLE ONE who was for it, and honestly it would be weird.
Extrapolating here, but I don’t think all women are judgemental jerks who used their ‘feminism’ as an excuse to be a total asshole over petty bullshit about other people’s choices. They just wanna live, man