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• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I mistyped, I meant to write 25 years younger.

  But why would somebody lie from roughly 30 to present as 55?

  Well really, the pattern that I though I’d noticed was that people would just bullshit their age by a round number, 5, 10, 20, etc years, in any direction.

  An obfuscation/privacy tactic more so than like, a catfishing tactic.

  The other thing at play here is that … I was genuinely baffled, in disbelief.

  I literally have never seen a 55 yo woman in as good of shape as she is, she’s in better shape than most women I’ve known who actually are in the age bracket I thought she was in.

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  • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I literally have never seen a 55 yo woman in as good of shape as she is, she’s in better shape than most women I’ve known who actually are in the age bracket I thought she was in.

    Sigh.

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    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      ???

      Is… is this a problem for you, in some way?

      That I have a body type preference, on a website explicitly designed for people to seek out specific consensual sexual experiences?

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      • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        You’ve literally never seen a 55 year old woman in shape? I don’t believe you.

        Look up a list of celebrity women who are currently 55 years old.

        This idea that women are decrepit and ugly and old at 55 is asinine.

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• UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Why would a 40 year old lie about being 55?

  So, on Tinder at least, there’s something I read about people under 40 being sorted and matched differently than people over 40. The end result being folks in higher tiers of service getting access to younger matches. But because it’s a semi-known exploit, you end up with people lying about their age to manipulate the match set.

  You also get a weird phenomenon such that you see the same list of people showing up over and over again on your feed, until you cross the dateline and suddenly they all vanish.

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  • velma@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yeah I’ve heard of that. Usually it’s a person in their 20s that wants access to older people though, not 40 year olds trying to trick 55 year olds.

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