Can you show me an example of this happening?
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wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 3 hours agoSure, make a post about guys and see how long it takes these same users to comment saying “why is this unnecessarily gendered?!? Women experience this too!” Or even “That’s not an issue men face! It’s clearly a women’s issue.”
velma@sh.itjust.works 3 hours ago
Soulg@ani.social 1 minute ago
Literally any community that is mostly women when someone complains about a guy issue
Or the numerous accounts of women finally acknowledging some things men have been complaining about for years once trans men start talking about them (alienation, mental damage from constantly being treated like a predator by default, etc)
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 3 hours ago
Sure, I’ll tag you next time I see it. I’m sure it won’t take long
velma@sh.itjust.works 3 hours ago
You said it happens all the time. Can you show me what you’re talking about?
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 3 hours ago
Are you saying you won’t take my word for it as a man that my experiences as a man have included a pattern of being invalidated and erased in spaces where people talk about the problems they face?
Imagine if the roles were reversed. Imagine a man saying “You said it happens all the time. Can you show me what you’re talking about?” to a woman who says she’s experienced a pattern of treatment by society.
surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
Sure. There’s stupid complaining cunts in both genders. I’ll say the same thing to both.
wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 1 hour ago
A true egalitarian.