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• realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Yes, but not anyone is normally allowed in the womens bathroom, or other “female zones”, if you will. Men don’t have anything to do in there. If you don’t pass as a woman, you shouldn’t be in there. Simple as that.

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  • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

    there shouldnt be “female spaces” just like how there shouldnt be “male spaces”

    whenever you see a “womens”/“women-only” thing, think of whether youd view it the same way if it were “mens”/“men-only”

    segregation should be universally illegal

    and genders are arbitrary and blurred anyway, and sexes are even more arbitrary

    you cant build functional restrictions around them

    also, as a nonbinary person, which bathroom do i go to

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  • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    You ever stop to consider that maybe you don’t pass as your chosen gender to someone else? Let people use the public restrooms they want. Harassment and rape are crimes, police that all you want, but we don’t need idiots getting bent out of shape and causing confrontations in restrooms because they believe they know better than the individuals who choose to present as a gender.

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    • realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      You ever stop to consider that maybe you don’t pass as your chosen gender to someone else

      I don’t care. I don’t have to use the womans bathroom.

      Let people use the public restrooms they want.

      No. Women’s bathroom are for women. If you don’t agree with that very simple statement, I do not like you and any further conversation is pointless.

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      • thethunderwolf@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨hour⁩ ago

        womens bathroom is for anyone, mens bathroom is for anyone, because gender segregation should not be legal

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      • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I don’t care. I don’t have to use the womans bathroom

        You’re literally making my point for me. Let’s say you, believing yourself a man, go to use the men’s restroom. I look at you, see that you look “chestier” than my idea of a man, and you’re in the men’s restroom!! Now I start screaming about you harassing me in my gender’s restroom. You need to leave!!!

        How fucking stupid. Nobody needs to be policing people’s appearances in what should be a pretty safe place.

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      • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Yes, women’s bathrooms are for women. That’s why I’m saying we should write “women” on the door if we’re pointlessly gendering bathrooms anyway. Having a flower on the door is only going to INCREASE these issues, not decrease them, you “clown.” You don’t like me because I’m pointing out your false statements

        Not only that, but not every women has a vagina, and certainly not every woman has a flowery one. Putting genital depictions on doors doesn’t help women, it harms them (just like it does to men…). How is that hard to see?

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