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• TheMuffinMan@piefed.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  I’m sorry that happened to your girlfriend, but anyone is capable of rape. You seem to be fixating on the trans part because it affirms your biases.

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  • realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Yes, but not anyone is normally allowed in the womens bathroom, or other “female zones”, if you will. Men don’t have anything to do in there. If you don’t pass as a woman, you shouldn’t be in there. Simple as that.

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    • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      You ever stop to consider that maybe you don’t pass as your chosen gender to someone else? Let people use the public restrooms they want. Harassment and rape are crimes, police that all you want, but we don’t need idiots getting bent out of shape and causing confrontations in restrooms because they believe they know better than the individuals who choose to present as a gender.

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      • realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        You ever stop to consider that maybe you don’t pass as your chosen gender to someone else

        I don’t care. I don’t have to use the womans bathroom.

        Let people use the public restrooms they want.

        No. Women’s bathroom are for women. If you don’t agree with that very simple statement, I do not like you and any further conversation is pointless.

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• stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Oh why would I need to wait for that to discuss inclusivity?

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  • realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Because when you or someone close to you has been affected by it, you start to see things from another view than that ivory tower most of you live in.

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    • stevestevesteve@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      I’m affected by it in the here and now. Not by some imaginary “almost raped!!” nonsense that you’re bringing into it. You and people who think like you are the oppressors, not the oppressed.

      To think that when I say “let’s use actual signage” you cry rape is fucking ludicrous. Get the fuck out of here with these obviously disingenuous arguments.

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      • realitaetsverlust@piefed.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Worthless nonsense you’re spouting. I work as a bartender on weekends and I had 2 situations last month alone where some “trans woman” was harassing women in the bathroom. This is not some “imaginary nonsense” you claim. This is the reality hundreds of thousands, if not millions of women face every single day.

        You’re not affected by it. You make yourself affected so you can collect internet points from people who live in similar ivory towers, not having to live with the outcomes of the decisions you propagate. You’re one of those politicians that told the public during covid: “No you REALLY gotta stay home, we do too, we all suffer together :((((” while celebrating private parties on some estates.

        People like you disgust me. You are so deep into your own delusion you don’t see how you are actively harming women with your bullshit. You’re a misogynistic clown. End of story.

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