Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 3 days agoDepends on, some are extremely kinky/horny, some are just literal pickmes trying to better market themselves to what they think they will like. I knew one such pickme, se converted to fundamentalist christianity within a year.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Yeah, there does seem to a dynamic like that at play… a bunch of people just say shit about themselves, that they think will make other people like them.
It would be nice if people were actually self aware and honest, with both themselves and others, but apparently that isn’t the meta.
That being said… converting to fundamentalist Christianity?
That’s some legit insanity right there, either that or a person who is deeply insecure and needs validation/meaning imposed on them.
ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 2 days ago
TL;DR: She at one point thought if she were a trad wife, she wouldn’t have to work. Then I disassociated myself from her, so I don’t know where she stood next.
sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 days ago
Ah, excellent motivation for reconfiguring your entire personality and life.
You dodged that bullet like an Agent in the Matrix, fuck.