Comment on most perverted men are actually very vanilla and run away when faced with a perverted woman
gandalf_der_12te@feddit.org 5 days agohaving a low tolerance for loss of control IMO is connected to a general anxiety, having made bad life experiences, having been hurt by others etc . this are not inherent character traits but develop in a rough and coldhearted environment.
sharkweek@sopuli.xyz 4 days ago
I think it’s also function of toxic masculinity - to trust your body to someone else goes against everything that’s taught about being macho.
To be blindfolded and tied is a very intense emotional experience, even before anything actually gets done … intense emotions are also considered bad by ‘tough guys’