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TootSweet@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
I have a friend who recently moved from the poorer side of the town I live in to the richer. (Iâve always lived in the latter, richer area.) And he was talking about how striking it was to him that on the richer side, strangers would go way out of their way to avoid interacting or making eye contact or anything, but the moment you forced the issue and start actually talking to them, theyâre the nicest people ever. The other side of town, interaction wasnât avoided the same way, and they wouldnât necessarily be quite as nice in their interactions.
Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
You seem to be saying that rich people are nicer than poor people.
TootSweet@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
More like ânice-in-quotation-marksâ. Maybe âpoliteâ would have been a better word. They smile bigger â exaggerated and insincere. They try to satisfy whatever youâre wanting so they can conclude the interaction as quickly as possible. They keep an air of superior self-righteousness while being nice⌠defensively.
Mind you, I do even put âpoliteâ in quotes on purpose. The more stuck-up folks can very âpolitelyâ cut you straight off at the knees in a way that preserves some semblance of plausible deniability where poorer folks (on average, very much a generalization) may be more real/authentic in general and can be more direct about calling you an asshole.
fartographer@lemmy.world â¨3⊠â¨weeks⊠ago
Yes, did you not go to American public school? Poor people are both lazy, and secretly rich because of how hard they work to game the system. You know, the system that literally doesnât exist.