Comment on Discussion Thread 📚 Saturday 13 June 2026

• Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  yes, this is a thing

  it’s not just learning, we have to unlearn the unproductive lessons we learnt in childhood, then rationally learn what we should have been taught , then use that new information a lot until it feels comfortable

  It took me a long time for my feelings to catch up with my rational mind when it comes to behaviours/red flags, especially subtle red flags .

  I think you’re doing great. 🏆😘

  can I say do not be afraid to confront triggers, real triggers that give you strong involuntary emotional reactions , they are huge clues as to what happened , follow the thought, follow the memories, defuse the trigger

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  • Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    I appreciate you posting this :)

    My problem is that im an outsider. And outsiders can pick each other out in a room full of people, within seconds.

    Now. Nothing wrong with being attracted to other outsiders. But there’s different flavours and you gotta be careful.

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    • Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

      Same regarding outsiders.

      There’s a million kinds of outsiders with a myriad of interests and traits and some are good people, some bad, some not so healthy to be around.

      Choose your friends wisely. 😘

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