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meekah@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨9⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

When she suffers, so should he? What?

I’m sure having a newborn is plenty stressful as it is, no need to take away another way of him to be able to relieve stress. Sure, she might not have that luxury, but having two stressed parents is worse than one.

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urheber@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨6⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
Yeah well its only fair

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- Holyginz@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Not a good mindset
  
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  - urheber@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨4⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    Not a good opinion
    
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    sukhmel@programming.dev ⁨3⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
    But you presented it anyway
    
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- meekah@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago
  Life isn’t fair. Get used to it.
  
  Instead of making everyone equally miserable, here’s another suggestion: he can now use his increased capacity to take away as much of the mother’s stress as he can. Seems like a much more reasonable solution to me than unnecessarily increasing stress levels of the man.
  
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