So if I go out wearing a Star Trek and encounter someone who wants to meet a Star Wars fan, then I’m in the wrong for choosing that shirt?
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minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months agoWho is better suited to know how someone can better present themselves than those having the experience of being presented to?
Maybe that doesn’t help you at work, or competing with the other girls, or manipulating people, or avoiding being gossiped about, or managing your self-hatred over how you naturally look.
But it still might be true for the person changing the presentation to better appeal to their preferences.
howrar@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
You’re not wrong, you’re simply not what they prefered. If you were, then they would have had a better experience. Why did being right or wrong enter the conversation?
howrar@lemmy.ca 2 months ago
So they would have a better experience encountering a Star Trek fan posing as a Star Wars fan?
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
If they wanted to meet a Star Trek fan posing as a Star Wars fan, then yes.
chaogomu@lemmy.world 2 months ago
Who better? Anyone who is not you, because anyone else would know not to say anything because nothing needs to be said.
minorkeys@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Unfortunately, life involves a considerable amount of want, as well. Why does it bother you souch to know someone doesn’t find you to be a pleasant experience?