What is this situation?

If your reasoning is that you “want to remember them in their healthy days”, you will regret not seeing them. Spend as much time with the people you love, as that time won’t come back.

But if your reasoning is that you simply don’t care about them, whatever… but it’s pretty cold, as I assume they’d get happiness from you visiting?

And they’re apparently non-abusive, and yet you want to celebrate their death? I personally want my funeral to be like those African parties instead of depressing shit, but I assume this isn’t what you mean…